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Alexandra Evans (11 days ago)
janice rivera (2 months ago)
Whoever subs to my channel i will sub to your channel back just tell me when u did it
Rusty Nail (3 months ago)
I don't know how many times I seen female friends kissing each other . Mostly it's just a quick smooch but every now and then I've seen two female friend locking lips for extended time. Friend of mine teaches high school and she said she's had to stop girls before making out with each other in class. Just heard a study on the radio that said the percentage of lesbian couples in America has been increasing rapidly.
dardanatxd ticktock (6 months ago)
I don't mind gay girls in ways I kinda think its cute but I also think its weird people knowing this don't ask why I'm saying this I have no clue
Giulio Gavelli (6 months ago)
She talk about straight girls that make soft lesbian action with their female best friend when are drunk at the party....she don't talking about lesbian and bisexual girls....it's totally different. The first is a teen fashion action
Pidge SpaceChild (8 months ago)
I turned this on cause i was confused cause i dont know you to post stuff like that
Hiral Makhecha (8 months ago)
THAT BOTHERS ME SO MUCH TOOO!! and then when they're not drunk or something, they are homophobic. are you kidding :/
Rebecca Wiens (8 months ago)
Hello, bi girl here. I've wanted to make out with a girl at a party, but haven't. Mostly in fear of losing my job (but that's a whole 'nother issue). I wanted to make out with her because I had a crush on her. We had known each other for awhile. I have dated both guys and girls. The guy I dated was asexual so we had a very romantic relationship that wasn't sexual. The girl I dated was bi as well. We got along well, but because of the social place we were in, didn't get to express our affection for each other so then we went our separate ways. She ended up dating a guy who broke her heart within months. I remained single. I would never use my sexuality to my advantage. If I'm with a girl, I am committed to her. If I am with a guy, I'm committed to him. If I'm single, I'm not going to flaunt my sexuality in order to get something from it.
cornKobmafia (8 months ago)
I'm confused so you fight for the right to do what you want to do in your life......but then get mad.offended.annoyed..and JUDGEMENTAL as hell and are trying to tell a different group of humans to stop doing/acting a certain way. That is so wildly hypocritical. So a strict old school catholic is offended by seeing 2 "real" lesbians kissing...and that person is judgemental narrow minded and rude....but you...you on your high horse. .you are right...stupid ass opinions videos comments like this are what cause such problems in the world....focus on you!!! Let other people live their life!!! It DOESNT AFFECT YOU. As much as you want it to so you can cry poor me it doesn't. Ps still like your videos and will watch them but this was hypocritical poor me crybaby crap.
Marie Carter (9 months ago)
I know this was made like 3 years ago but its all in good fun when girls kiss other girls at parties. If they become hypocritical and are homophobic then thats wrong. Liquid courage is a big key factor in this at parties. Anyway i love your channel its super cute. You and Maddison are adorable together. Are you guys still a happy couple? 😊😊
Pineapple Head (9 months ago)
I hate u stop clickbait
Greg Justice (9 months ago)
Yes it is not cool But we can not
Greg Justice (9 months ago)
So please don't do it 😘😝😝😝 Good bye
phoebe doering (11 months ago)
my friend who is a lesbian got lead on by a girl that she didn't know was straight they ended up making out one night and then the straight girl just stopped talking to her and totally ignored her.
John Fitzsimons (1 year ago)
Lost Minds (1 year ago)
I'm against it if the girls are STRICTLY straight
joe murray (1 year ago)
Bitch shut the fuck up
JustmeNici (1 year ago)
I have made out with straight girls, I'm gay, but I don't mind. I know a lot of girls that love making out with women and are genuinely interested in girls, they just wouldn't have a relationship with women and I don't need to have a relationship with someone to like kissing them
Kyouku (1 year ago)
You have perfect teeth, how you do that?
look left (1 year ago)
that flag in the background tho
Sappho Sweethearts (1 year ago)
close female friends will always express their platonic love in the highest way (physically), regardless of their orientation. the emotional intensity between women just can't be matched by a male, even a husband or boyfriend, which is why a straight woman will have a physically relationship or two or maybe three over their lifetime with an female. additionally, lesbian flings are a right of passage for many girls and young women, regardless of whatever orientation they identify. physical affection is also the norm for females and that can make it hard to tell if women are lesbian, bi or straight. for example, it's not uncommon to see a two girls standing in line like at a movie theater and one has her arms around the waist of the other and she kisses the other behind her head, or they are face to face holding each other...are they friends or lovers...you can never be quite sure when it come to affection between women.
pretty-little-birdie (1 year ago)
I'm scared that when I go to college, I'll like a girl and kiss her and then find out she's straight :( I don't want my first kiss with a girl to be meaningless. So yeah, stop it straight girls. Only kiss me if you're doing it for us.
a s rose (2 years ago)
Most of us do it for multiple reasons, the three chiefest of which are: (1) We like messing with guys' heads and getting them all riled, (2) We like the attention, and (3) Kissing is so much fun and girls are so much better at it! ( And there are no strings; If we did it with some random guy at a party, he would expect to sleep with us. ) Amen ?
Alysia Williams (1 year ago)
a s rose I can see that and agree however, it's also question the legitimacy of those in LGBT community.!!
faboolus foxy (2 years ago)
It's hard for us gay girls to get the respect from men when there are these straight girls kissing each other for a guys attention.
Amanda LY (2 years ago)
Well, they either do it for fun or to attract a guy's attention. some girls do pretty much _anything_ for male attention and honestly, I couldn't care less about it. on a side note, great video. subscribed.
Valerie Trevino (2 years ago)
TasiPintzi (2 years ago)
I live in a homophobic country. If two straight girls make out in public, they won t be yelled at, because people know that they are straight. On the other hand, if two lesbians, or bisexuals, that are out of the closet, dare to hold hands, they will be in a lot if trouble!
Alysia Williams (1 year ago)
lkjhgfdsa12361 That's fucked up that's not right at all.
Ari (2 years ago)
one person told me they did it because she thinks kissing is fun
Keontaelt Turner (2 years ago)
steph why did you lie about two girls making out
Cathy N (2 years ago)
Steph has the prettiest eyes! So envy of you Steph!
TheConfuzzledCat (2 years ago)
I'm against it because it's basically saying to lesbians/any other sexual orientation that involves two women: "So yeah, we are going to pretend to be you, because a lot of guys think watching lesbians make out is hot, therefore both my female friend who I made out with and myself can get a guy tonight."
Gabriela Dimitrova (2 years ago)
Oh yes this is disgusting ... why are they even do this
Shona (2 years ago)
Nora Axelsson (2 years ago)
Of all of the videos with those thumbnails, this one is my favourite. I've watched this so many times, best video ever. You're so brave and I love how you teach everyone this sort of stuff. GO STEPH!
Jaedyn White (2 years ago)
your gross
桃いか (2 years ago)
If you think love is gross, you're disgusting.
786sami786 (2 years ago)
What do I think? I think it's wrong but not because of your reason but because I believe homosexuality is wrong.
Arry A (2 years ago)
Your choice, but don't become a homophobe. If you don't support it, alright, but don't be against it. :)
786sami786 (2 years ago)
+Arry A I'm not listening to them. I've seen a verse in the Bible and all major religions say it's wrong so I'm keeping my belief. To say it is 'suggested' makes it questionable. Not concrete proof. There is still no clear evidence that homosexuality is genetic.
Arry A (2 years ago)
It isn't mentioned anywhere that it's wrong. People who say that it isn't, are the homophobes who are saying without any knowledge. Don't listen to them. And it is suggested that it's due to the levels of progesterone and other factors which show that it's natural. :)
786sami786 (2 years ago)
+Arry A I'm not a Christian but I think the Bible does suggest that homosexuality is wrong. Homosexuality is not scientifically proven to be genetic. 
Arry A (2 years ago)
You are a Christian, I suppose? Likewise. Dude, there's nothing in the Bible which says Homosexuality is wrong. It's not a choice, it's scientifically said that it depends on your genes and hormones, so doesn't that make it very natural? Just think about it. :)
Megan Lyon (2 years ago)
I'm not against girls making out at party's
Will Hart (2 years ago)
Nice top.
Kim Advincula (2 years ago)
i dont mean to offend anyone if i am, but im uhm "curious"? what if the girl's sexuality is heteroflexible?
Kim Advincula (2 years ago)
Haha thanks guys, I'm not offended btw :)
Insert name here (2 years ago)
+Lena Anders Sounds like experiencing to me which she mentioned.
Lena Anders (2 years ago)
+Kimberly Advincula Steph said that it doesn't apply to bisexual, bicurious, queer, etc women. She may have left it out, but I don't think she meant to. There are so many sexualities she might have accidentally missed that one. No offense to your sexuality if that is the one she left out -.- But heteroflexiblity does technically fall into the "queer" category.
Alejandra Vids (2 years ago)
for it because I believe that everyone should be them selfs and not let toher people bring them down because of sexual preference😀😃😄
Lorna Kay (2 years ago)
I think I'm for it. if other people don't like it so what. it's your life not theirs.
ITsDeStruCtor Clan (2 years ago)
Well if u hate it so bad go get a man
ITsDeStruCtor Clan (2 years ago)
even if u are lesbian
Lucia Herrera (2 years ago)
the subject of this video actually is really accurate and interesting, totally agree with your point of view thumbs up
Alma Miles Dei (2 years ago)
boohoo for you . this is lame.
Alma Miles Dei (2 years ago)
Haileigh Reese (2 years ago)
I hate that video
Katie Johnson (3 years ago)
hey ask u questions how can me my girl get married I never seen video of that she always ask me lot
Tony Garcia (3 years ago)
just watch the end of the video n leave this girl alone not that any of you phase her,but I personally would b annoyed with negative comments
Tony Garcia (3 years ago)
all of these negative comments r really people who watched half of this video or people who just read the comments,but a simple n obvious response will shut all the negatives down She said she doesn't have a problem wth y'all straight females doing that,but just don't do it around a place where you r abusing your "power" READ BEFORE YOU SPEAK
Your Girl Jadyn! (3 years ago)
Poo Face (3 years ago)
Man I'm so tired of those ladies who EVERYONE knows is gay but they say their straight. WOMAN YOU ARE NOT STRAIGHT IF YOU MAKE OUT WITH ANOTHER GIRL. oh my fucking god does anybody have common sense?!
Jamie Allwright (3 years ago)
Hey steph I totally agree with you I will email you and can u please email me back thx
kAmii Kazee (3 years ago)
What I don't understand is why gender-alisation has become such a topic which revolves around sexuality. Straight girls kissing other girls at the club is disturbing already but when it is talked about it makes no sense at all. so morbid. Just let them do it if it makes them happy. It does become confusing though because then a lesbian standing in the corner thinks she has a chance with the one she fancies. I am not saying stop doing that but at least wear a neon sign saying that you are not gay. I love all lgbt.. but the one that makes me scratch my head are the Bisexuals. I respect you lot but it doesnt make sense. so if you are at a party, and you like a girl, then you see a guy, you like them too. who do you go home with. Threesome? Damn, I dont like turns.
Fernanda Ramirez (3 years ago)
Your really cute and I love you videos
Tangerine Squid (3 years ago)
Wait sooo no kissing?.......
Skylar G (3 years ago)
I love the way you are so passionate about such topics and like to shine a light on the topic in a way most people do not see. I agree with you 100% and although I am Pansexual and you talked about us not being as respected due to strait girls making out at parties. I would never abuse my privilege of using my sexuality as a ploy to get guys. Your videos inspire me and make me think of many things differently to how I normally would. Thank you for that! You are beautiful and a genius <3
Cry Wolf (3 years ago)
Safiya Ayana (3 years ago)
I don't think two girls making out at a party or anyone making out at a party has anything to do with them mocking being gay. I think everyone can kiss who they want where they want as long as the other person is okay with it. Saying straight girls should't kiss other girls at parties because it confuses other people is like saying I can't wear a blue shirt because you don't like that color.
Simone A (3 years ago)
So I'm bi-sexual (didn't come out yet) and it's very difficult to explain how it feels. It's just a gut feeling. You love the person not because of their gender but because of what's on the inside. You are romantically and sexually attracted to both genders, you are just okay with being with a girl or a guy because it all depends on their personality for us. It's really hard to explain to others that are not bi-sexual but it's basically the same as pansexual, just only for boys and girls. We just take boys and girls for who they are :) (or at least that's how I explain it) It's really to difficult to put into words.
Shaodw Fox (3 years ago)
I really don't care. In all cases I see where everyone is coming from. Straight people don't want to be judged, bi people don't want to be judged, gay people don't want to be judged. No one wants judgement for what they do or their opinions on some thing, and not everyone is going to see eye to eye on everything but hey its life and we all live it everyday. There's things in this world that all communities won't understand. Like I said I don't care. But let's all try to see everyone's point of view, cause there's always a story to how someone may feel on a subject. And there's more sides to a story.
TenguBE (3 years ago)
I'm for freedom ;)
Annie Gremlin (3 years ago)
"...I'm being chastised for my sexuality" *proceeds to chastise other girls for their sexuality* Just because you're a lesbian doesn't mean you own the rights to all girl on girl interaction. I'm a straight girl and I've made out with other girls... sometimes it's fun, and it's sexy. Why are you being so judgmental about it?
Hyoyeons Blondehair (6 months ago)
Annie Gremlin Did you even watch? It's because of your privilege. When straight girls do it, it's okay to society because it's hot, but when girls who are attracted to girls (members of the LGBTQ+ community) do it, society is less accepting of it and they think it is gross because most people still think girls only kiss girls to gain attention from them, especially from men. But what about those that get sexualized without asking for it, whose self is basically one that gets attracted to a fellow woman? Straight people should not bait people like that because if you do, the gays, bisexuals, etc. will be having a harder time than we already do getting accepted for who we are. So many people still don't treat us seriously, and what you do is not helping at all. You may not care, but please understand that it is our life, and this is a part of who we are. I wish you would show a bit more thought about it than you do.
i am a man (3 years ago)
+Poo Face it is sexy because it looks sexy thats a possibility or it feels sexy cuz lips are genderless XD
Poo Face (3 years ago)
+i am a man She said its sexy, she obviously is physically attracted.
i am a man (3 years ago)
+Poo Face kissing a person means pushing your lips against each other and being a lesbian means having sexual atraction to other women while being a women yourself how are those things the same for you man???? one is physical touch and the other one is a feeling those things are deeply related but in a lot of cases are not equal if you were a women you would understand.
Poo Face (3 years ago)
Omfg how ARE YOU STRAIGHT IF YOU KISS GIRLS? Just say your gay, Jesus fucking Christ
Isabella Chesser (3 years ago)
I'm bi but I don't no how to tell my family
Amelia Smith (3 years ago)
i love your videos and sentence construction lmao, u speak so well, im jealous.
SuperFreakyTails (3 years ago)
That thumbnail tho >.>
Ditzie Ritzie (3 years ago)
Could not have said it better myself, Steph. You're an amazing person and keep doing what you do!
Julia Słowik (3 years ago)
Your observations are great. I had this kind of a situation, suddenly a friend of mine leaned in and kissed me at a party, in front of all the people. And.. WELL, alright, but... then I asked myself, what's the fucking meaning of this? I don't behave this way, what's the point? I either have feelings for somebody and show them in PEIVATE place or don't do anything at all!
Ken (3 years ago)
Knowing this was one Steph's videos, I knew it wasn't going to be about two girls making out
Austin Taylor (3 years ago)
disagree ok ill be honest everyday with my x (when we where together) after school we'd kiss out side of the doors before we left and it felt a little weird cause all the guys would look at us so we stopped and did it in a more private area c: and those "straight'' girls some what bother me for the factor of the whole ''hate'' with bi cause yes I was bi for a while and yes I got a fended but then I was struggling finding what my sexuality was ,now I know that im lesbian and I have pride *cheers* but there for now I have problems with excepting girls who say that they are ''bi'' cause of my x cause she tends to go for the male more often female and I feel as my x only dated me for attention? do you get what I mean? (by the way you my fav you tuber and have helped me threw allot! <3 )
ItsYourGirlLizzey (3 years ago)
+ElloSteph truuu!! like wtf man. I'm still having trouble coming out and their just like "hey! there's a guy over there so I'll just kiss the nearest girl to him!" BUT that's none of my business... (drinks tea)
Dianaliss & Nixsa (3 years ago)
I love this video! Thanks..
Ariana Gonzalez (3 years ago)
I have become addicted to you I love to watch you you make my day and you make me feel like I have people who understand being gay! And tbh you are my idol! P.S 💓💓💓💓 you!
Sally Barr (3 years ago)
I'm one of the bi girls disrespected because of this, so, no, I don't like it.
Emily N (3 years ago)
ihateroses (3 years ago)
WTF. Everyone has a right to do whatever the fuck they want as long as they don't hurt you in any way. Just because YOU get bullied because you go somewhere and kiss your gf it doesn't mean that someone has to stop doing something they like doing. WE ALL WANT OUR FREEDOM.  Not mentioned that this video is basically bitching on bisexuals...
Athena Aliafe (3 years ago)
You look like Rachel Ballinger
Michelle S (3 years ago)
I'm from a small town, and I've known my friends for 10+ years. One of the girls that I dated back in high school, who is now days (10 years later) pretty much straight with 2 kids. But at parties, she likes dancing for me, and will parade me around as the only girl she's ever dated. This is the most action I get, because there's not many other gay woman here. I don't want to say that I'll take what I can get, because it feels like a big tease to me. *mixed emotions*
하늘 (3 years ago)
so true.
Astroglow Gaming (3 years ago)
For it
Faith Needs Help (3 years ago)
This is why Steph is an amazing person. She isn't scared to speak her mind. She also makes a lot of points
Itz Peca (3 years ago)
I understand what your saying but why are bisexuals looked down on? I mean we can't control it we just like women and men and we aren't just going to stop liking women/men because we are in a social setting where it isn't ok.
Itz Peca (3 years ago)
+katie ellsweig yeah that makes sense. And ik she isn't against bi I was just saying people who are shouldn't be.
katie ellsweig (3 years ago)
+Mary Peca steph isn't in any way one of the people looking down on bisexuals though some people in the lg community sadly do. she is simply making the argument that those negative reactions or 'biphobia' could partially be due to this but personally I don't buy that argument though a lot of the rest of what she says makes sense to me i guess. It's just to me Buphobia is just too significant a trend in my opinion and i believe it is more due to the fact that many gays and lesbians view bisexuals as privileged. Hope this makes sense and helps and isn't too late...
Jeisha Cruz (3 years ago)
I'm totally against it because if someone is straight and they know for sure they are then they shouldn't be kissing someone of the same sex! If we do it and get judged why can they do it and not get judged it's not right!
txguy4u2001 (3 years ago)
this is worse then wwe, all talk and no action, you tube has gone to crap
Val (3 years ago)
Against it!!!!
maritimetimes (3 years ago)
oh come off it
Rebecca Singletary (3 years ago)
It really hard are me to so how I feel about girl with me being in church
summer jane (3 years ago)
Omg SOOO many big words! O_o... Anyway very well said!!
Aye Bee (3 years ago)
I find it really confusing because I cannot really detect whether it is a real attraction or for some other motive.  It is especially perplexing to me when a girl tries to kiss me at a party because I do not know what their intention is. I am not straight and sometimes it makes me feel like I am being used.
Cat Valentine (3 years ago)
Thank you so much for this! Definitley one of my favorite videos of yours. Way to stand up for yourself/your community!!!
Micheal Morgan (3 years ago)
My sister is a lesbien and I have no problem with it and I think I'm a lesbein
Kat Waterman (3 years ago)
Everything you say = totally agree with! Tell it how it is ElloSteph! haha =)
Janaisha Hart (3 years ago)
come on Steph. most of us know your videos well enough to know this would be a great lesson👍
Jaide Johnson (3 years ago)
I'm a 14 year old girl, I've never kissed a girl or boy. I'm confident with my sexuality which is strait. That being said I would kiss a girl and never for male attention or most of those things listed. I feel so confident of my sexuality that I would kiss a girl and I think there's nothing wrong with that but I totally agree with everything else you said Steph. It isn't fair that if two strait girls kiss at a party and go somewhere that being gay is frowned upon they are aloud to be there but if two gay people go there they get told to go away. Btw I love your videos Xx
Farah T (3 years ago)
I think you're upset about nothing. there's nothing wrong with two straight women kissing! 
Insert name here (2 years ago)
you missed the point buddy, did you finish watching the video?
moviebuff995 (3 years ago)
Thank you so much for making this video!! It needs to stop because it delegitimizes queer women
Molly (3 years ago)
i never really thought of it this way but all this is so true and so well put.
christel ahlquist (3 years ago)
u are cute!!!
Madison s (3 years ago)
It's love and love is love
Cassidy King (3 years ago)
Me being straight I agree with you 100% ! Me having a gay best friend , a bi friend and a lesbian friend I am for any kind of love and I don't judge ! I think you are amazing and I absolutely love your videos ❤️
Laura Neal (3 years ago)
I agree with you completely. I've always thought that two straight girls making out at a party were just ridiculous. They were only doing it for the attention of guys. Now everytime I kiss my girlfriend in public guys ask if they can get in on it. It's so annoying.
Paul Charlier (3 years ago)
Why wouldn't a girl want to make out with another girl? Girls are just plain hot! Gay or Not wouldn't matter!

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